At many ages, boys will be more aggressive, faster, and more advanced than girls so your daughter could learn very valuable skills that she wouldn’t necessarily pick up on playing entirely against the girls. Ask yourself, can my daughter really improve by playing with the boys? and you’ll quickly find the answer, odds are you’ll realize that she really can get better.
Disadvantages of Girls playing Basketball with Boys
Of course you probably want to know about any potential drawbacks as well, and unfortunately there are at least a few to consider. First of all, boys can sometimes be a little more physical when playing basketball, for some girls this is not really an issue and can help toughen them up, but for some girls it could be overwhelming.
Many girls might also be nervous about being surrounded by all boys rather than the girls they are friends with, but if your daughter is asking to play with the boys, odds are she is prepared for this.
Here is an awesome story about Ann Meyers Drysdale who is considered one of the best basketball players ever! Drysdale didn’t shy away from playing with the boys, that is why she tried to play in NBA for the Indiana Pacers. She has an amazing story and demonstrates why women can do anything that they put their mind to.
This is a must read book for parents and girls who love basketball. – “You Let Some Girl Beat You?”.
The skills and talent she could pick up are far beyond what she would develop otherwise, but if she isn’t ready for it you won’t be helping her at all. In the end it really comes down to you and the child making the decision, everyone’s child is different and you need to do your best to decide if she’s ready to play with the boys.
It is a good idea to talk with the boys as well as your daughter to determine if she is really ready, but if becoming a better basketball player is a priority this is absolutely one of the best ways to do it.
This is different but is similar in so many ways, I developed my basketball skills pretty quickly by being a boy playing with men! Playing with older players as a young kid, helped me to become quicker, more agile, a better decision maker and an all-around better basketball player.
They didn’t take it easy on me and ultimately that made me tougher. Some girl’s coaches will go as far as scrimmaging against boys and their are many success stories of why this has helped their team. If my little girl decides that she wants to play basketball and really be good at it, I’m an advocate of letting her play with boys her age so that she can get better.
Marty
There is no consideration presented into the impact put upon their female teammates or the potential opportunity taken from a male when a female athlete moves over to compete with boys.
Lamar Hull
Good point Marty. I will add that in. What are your thoughts on that? Would love to include some thoughts from you as well. Thanks for commenting!